The first time I heard the word “blog” I was in college – maybe 2000, or 2001 or so? I had a crush on Wil Wheaton as a kid and searched for him on – gosh, I dunno. Alta Vista, maybe? Or Lycos?
Weren’t those the days? Remember Flooz? Kids, ask your parents.
I took a few cracks at blogging right away. A couple of the cooler people I knew had LiveJournal accounts, so I got one too, and it followed me from Winston-Salem to New Haven. The work I did at GCN was sorta like blogging, though we called it a “column” and I updated it by e-mailing Word documents.
I started another blog at Salon.com, back when they did that sort of thing, in the fall of 2003, but after a month they wanted me to start paying them for the privilege of writing online. Since I was having trouble keeping my lights turned on and my rent paid at the time, I let that blog die.
Then, on Christmas Eve 2004, I started the blog that continues in this form today. I was about to start the graduate Professional Writing program at the University of Oklahoma and I thought, “I need an outlet. Somewhere to play.” In February 2006 I bought this domain name, set up a blog, moved all my old posts over here, and have been here ever since.
Except, you may notice, I’ve become erratic. I don’t post often. All your better bloggers post at least once daily, or at least on some kind of regular schedule. And I haven’t been doing that.
What I have been doing is having a really crappy handful of months, and yes, that’s affected things. You guys know about most of that, and what you don’t know about I’m not telling you, at least not online anyway. And besides, the whole point of this paragraph is to tell you that things are looking way, way up – sky high, actually.
As of yesterday I have a fabulous new job, as the Managing Editor of Oklahoma Today magazine. Which I sorta just can’t believe. I want to reach through space-time, tap the Nathan of December 24, 2004, on the shoulder and say, “DON’T WORRY LOOK AT WHAT’S GOING TO HAPPEN!”
I’ve wrestled for a long time what the purpose of this website is. What the heck the name of it means and why I keep it. The deal is, I love blogging. I really do. I love anything that allows me to write, especially to write about things I genuinely care about. So I’m not going to stop blogging.
But what is going to happen is that this website is going to go away. OkayCity.com, very soon, will not exist.
So much of the last year and a half of my life has been about transition. This has been hard and awful, but also much of it has been really, really good. My reasons for getting rid of this domain name and the archives of this site are really boring ones about building a “writer’s platform” and I’m happy to speak with you guys about that if you want. I own my name’s .com address, and while something is parked there now, very soon Brian and I will be building me a new website. Which will have a blog. Which – swear to God – I will update regularly.
I’ve learned a great deal in the last year about the business of writing, and publishing, and I’m confident this is the way to go, and excited to start a new adventure. So I hope you’ll join me in the new place; and I hope you’ll have fond memories of this place. Thank you guys for reading along all this time, those of you who do.
Peace out -
Nathan




Comment by K.C. Clifford
Um. I understand but it’s a little bittersweet. Sadness. I’m feeling sadness. And I’m all about feelings, as you know.
11 August 2011, 7:23 pm
Comment by Dr. Pants
Are you going to change your twitter handle?
11 August 2011, 7:52 pm
Comment by Lynde
Looking forward to the next phase!!
12 August 2011, 4:55 pm
Comment by Mark Lawrence
Long time coming. Congrats. Have fun. Do good and live well.
12 August 2011, 7:59 pm
Comment by Dylan
This kind of makes me sad. I know we don’t keep up with each other as regularly as we should… but I always had comfort in knowing that when I needed a little inspiration from you, I could come here. I am hopeful that the next venture will fill that void. And, well… that we can do better about the keeping in touch in “real time” as well.
13 August 2011, 10:35 pm
Comment by Heath
This is no good. I don’t know you, but I do like reading your writing. I am now on my quest to find the next blog to follow.
16 August 2011, 4:06 pm
Comment by kent
congrats….. on to the next adventure and may it lead you to many others….
18 August 2011, 8:40 pm
Comment by Joe
Congratulations on the new job! I subscribe to OKLAHOMA TODAY and it is one of my favorite magazines. I look forward to the great work that I know you will do there.
24 August 2011, 6:47 pm
Comment by Mali
Congratulations on the job.
I’ve read you on and off since your x365 days, and always enjoyed it. I’m not sure I’ll be able to find your new space, so this might be good-bye.
Can I suggest though that you keep your archives, or a hard copy or electronic copy of your writings here though. A friend of mine deleted his earlier blogs, and now regrets it. I’d hate you to regret this record of your life.
29 August 2011, 11:01 pm