The Car I Want To Be In

So last night I came down with a severe case of Coldplay tickets. Or, that’s what I told everyone as to why I wasn’t going to class. Brian got us this as a Christmas present, so last night we rushed home after work, changed and showered, and headed to Cafe Nova for dinner.

Let me just say, that place: Yeah, awesome. Great atmosphere, genius bartender (let’s hear it for the best mojito in town), and amazing food by Ian Wagner, the chef. Potato-encrusted salmon with cucumber salad and arrugula. Our appetizer was creatively named “Crispy Things With Interesting Sauces” and for desert, well…all I really remember clearly is lots of chocolate and a raspberry or two.

The concert was amazing. I love the Ford Center, the new-ish arena in Oklahoma City, because unlike our previous concert arenas, it was designed mostly for concerts. The Cox Center is a convention center, and Lloyd Noble is a basketball arena, and yes, the Hornets play at Ford, but the sound was amazing. Opening act Fiona Apple pretty much dazzled, though we spent most of that time with the people around us trying to figure out where the hell they were sitting, as it was nearly impossible to find our seats with the lights on, much less in the dark. She sounded good and was gracious. The sound was good enough that you could tell without even watching that she is a talented rock pianist, and interestingly, her band had no guitarist, just three keyboards, percussion, and a bass. The sound was fantastic, though.

So Coldplay takes the stage – holy crap. First off, major props to their lighting designers, who clearly had a sizeable budget and some off-the-wall creativity, because the lighting was incredible. Sound was great, of course, and the performance was off the chain. It never ceases to amaze me how much more respect you can get for a band upon hearing them live. I have always really, really liked Coldplay. I remember when “Yellow” came out and I was in Ireland, and Paul Swenson kept saying “that is a beautiful song.” But this took my admiration to a new level. Possibly a form of worship. Easily the best concert I’ve been to since U2.

Two really cool moments during the show. During the second encore, “In My Place,” Chris Martin disappeared for a second. All of a sudden everyone around me is looking behind us, to the back of the arena, where we were, and whoop! There’s fucking Chris Martin, not fifteen feet away from us, singing up in the face of all the people in the back of the room. That was friggin’ awesome.

The other moment, probably my favorite, came earlier, when he mentioned that he was a big fan of the Flaming Lips, who live and are based here in OKC. He said that the band had spent the day with Lips lead singer Wayne Coyne, driving around Oklahoma City in his pickup truck, seeing the city, the places where the Lips first played, all the sights. On the way home I could not get that image out of my head: Coldplay and Wayne Coyne together in one car, driving around my town. I said to Brian, “That’s the car I want to be in.” I am deeply, deeply curious as to what sights Wayne showed them, what they talked about, what parts of Oklahoma City they saw, or liked, or hated, or were confused by.

Anyway, a good night. I’m still pretty wiped from the show, and I have class tonight, or, barring that, I may just go see Dr. Kimball, the head of the religion department at Wake Forest, who is speaking in the OU Student Union this evening. Watch him not have a clue who I am.

Family Dinner

Another successful family dinner.

I got to mom’s late because I was having a bitch of a time getting myself together – losing my wallet and such. But when I got there it was just mom and Laurie, who were getting started on a bottle of Fat Bastard Chardonnay. My wine of choice: Red Truck Chardonnay, which is a wonderful wine – you should try it. That recommendation comes courtesy of Ty, the wine guy at Byron’s Liquor Warehouse.

Mom went all out with dinner. She had found this recipe for a kind of sweet chicken salad in “Food and Wine” magazine, which she had the brilliant idea of wrapping in a pastry to make a kind of pie. It was delicious. Alongside that was asparagus soup and a chocolate pudding pastry with strawberries on top, and iced tea. I mean, I ask you: do I have the best mom ever?

It was delicious; I’m glad I went first in making family dinner, because there is no way to follow this. Good luck to John and Crystal, though.

We watched Drop Dead Gorgeous, which I knew mom would love. General revelry ensued. John and Crystal bought a record player at the thrift store yesterday which they brought over, and mom busted out her box of old 33′s. I almost gave birth when I realized she had an original vinyl copy of Tapestry by Carole King, and was very, very disappointed when we realized that the new $5 record player had no needle. But mom let me have the record, and I almost peed my pants out of love for her.

Jaye missed out because he had to study but we made a plate for him. Lately I am very, very in love with my family. My half-sister Valerie is coming down next weekend and I am looking forward to taking her and Tom out to lunch and showing them my house. They bought us a $50 Pier One gift card for Christmas, so they are getting the VIP tour.

Tomorrow night is Coldplay in concert, and Brian and I are having dinner at Cafe Nova, which I hope you will all get to see for yourselves soon. But we are still working on that.

I Am A Good Friend to the Metropolitan Library System…

Just got up from a nap-esque type activity. Brian and I made our way down to the State Fairgrounds for the Friends of the Metropolitan Library System Book Sale, where I spent $20 on the following:

CDs ($1/per):

Shawn Colvin, "Whole New You"

Annie Lennox, "Medusa"

Verdi, 2-CD set of highlights from "La Traviata" and "Otello"

Indigo Girls, "Come On Now Social"

Ted Leo and the Pharmacists, "Hearts of Oak"

Mary Chapin Carpenter, "State of the Heart"

Puccini, 2-CD set of an old 1950′s recording of "La Boheme" 

VINYL ($1/per):

Ravel, The Complete Orchestral Works by the Paris Conservatoire Orchestra (vol. 2)

Tchaikovsky: Concerto No. 1 in B Flat Minor, Op. 23 and Weber’s Konzertstuck in F minor, Op. 79 played by Claudio Arrau

Mozart Arias performed by Anna Moffo

Rachmaninoff’s Piano Concerto No. 2 in C Minor, Op. 18, performed by Eugene Istomin, piano, with The Philadelphia Orchestra with Eugene Ormandy, conductor.  

"How To Study and Why" by Bernice McCullar, M.A., Director of Information for the Georgia State Department of Education (c) 1964

BOOKS ($1 hardback, $.50 paperback): 

When You Look Like Your Passport Photo, It’s Time To Go Home by Erma Bombeck

The 1980′s: Countdown to Armageddon by Hal Lindsey (should be funny)

The Dissent of the Governed by Stephen Carter

The Culture of Disbelief by Stephen Carter

The Gay and Lesbian Liberation Movement by Margaret Cruikshank

Morning Sun on a White Piano by Dr. Robin R. Meyers (my pastor)

Jurassic Park by Michael Crichton (saw the movie the other day, thought about reading the book again, thirteen years after I read it the last time).

MAGAZINES ($.25/per):

National Geographic from August 1952 (for my mom – that’s when she was born) and from June, 1960, for my dad, because when I was a kid he had this giant collection of National Geographics from way, way back, because he has subscribed to it for forever, and they were in the basement, which flooded one year and destroyed them all. So I got him one. More symbolic than anything, but I just felt like doing it.

Life magazine from June 1996 featuring a story on conjoined twins.

This is one of my favorite events every year. I volunteered at it for two years in a row in high school and remember having a whole lot of fun. As a writer I am weary of buying secondhand books, as the authors do not get any royalties from secondhand sales. (Incidentally, I had ordered Dr. Meyers’ book not two days ago, and Brian keeps telling me to cancel the order, but I just can’t. I’m just going to give that copy to someone).  But as someone who loves to read as much as I do I just cannot pass up the opportunity for such cheap books – and the CDs! All good stuff that I was excited to find, much of it in the original packaging, brand new. I was most excited about the recording of "La Boheme," which I love, and the vinyl of Mozart arias. Looking forward to giving those a good, long listen.

Was hoping to get some cookbooks, but those were either picked clean or absent. Ah, well. 

Tonight’s family dinner at mom’s; I actually need to start getting ready here in a minute. Laurie’s coming, which will be great, and I’m bringing the wine, and a movie. But which movie? I need to think about that for a little bit. Everybody enjoy your weekend.

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